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January 31 爱情的理解 看到一篇文章是写爱情的,觉得写得很好。拷过来,供大家欣赏。有时候,觉得自己对于爱情像是麻木了,不知自己的真名天子在何方,可心里始终有个信念,我一定会找到,也许会很久,那又何妨。曾觉得韩剧里的情节都是一样的,不太喜欢看。可是现在被两部韩剧感动着,一部是MY GIRL, 一部是爱在哈佛,可能是在女主人工的身上能看到自己的影子,乐观向上,可有时还会被爱情所困扰。现在想用两组词来鼓励自己,一是BAXIA, 一是A AZ AZ Fighting。好了,还是欣赏美文吧。
一直认为, 爱情是一种双向性的情感交流, 是两颗心的倾慕, 是两情相悦, 是一种灵魂与灵魂碰撞的火花。 如果两个人相爱, 是不需要刻意的改变自己去取悦对方的。 如果她(他)不喜欢你, 你怎么刻意的去追求也都是没有用的. 真的相互喜欢的话, 喜欢还来不及, 用得着不顾一切的去取悦么? 就算你用真诚打动了她(他), 这样得到的感情未免有点儿勉强, 她(他)当初不那么接受你, 一定是你有些条件不那么符合她(他)心目中的要求, 被你一时的行动所感动, 可时间长了,如果她(他)遇到心目中理想的人, 就难保证她(他)不变心了。 可经常有人这样说: “放弃她(他),我活不下去, 我很爱她(他)!” 其实这样的想法很可笑, 生活中,谁没有了谁就不能活了呢? 没有了谁地球就不能转了呢? 除非你自己真的不想活了, 否则谁也挡不了你生活的路。 通常我们以为“唯一”的东西其实都不是真的, 只是我们没有用心的去寻找而已。 真正的爱情源于彼此发自内心的倾慕, 建立在两情相悦的基础上。 任何只顾疯狂的去爱别人而不顾自己有否被爱, 或着只顾索取而不知真心付出的人都不会有好的结局。 一个人一生中会遇到多少的有缘无份的呢 爱你的,你爱的,都一一擦肩而过 可是这里最让你记忆最深的只有初恋 体会到爱情初次的甜蜜,深深烙在心里 以至于以后的朋友条件都依TA而寻 或许你的信箱里现在还保存着当年的情书 一字一句都让你难以忘记 没有办法继续爱情的时候只能转成亲情 现在再见到TA的时候,不会再有当时的冲动 一种手心手背的感觉 得不到的是最好的 人往往都是这样,得到了的不珍惜 追求一个人很久的时间未能得到 感觉TA的神秘,看不到他糗的时候 心里永远都是完美的形象 所以备感珍惜,珍贵 得到的呢? 经过甜蜜的热恋,从完美的形象期过渡到平凡 从陌生到熟悉,甚至身上有几颗痣 都说长相守,却不能理解其含义 爱情珍贵的不是热恋,而是能接受平淡的生活 女人会爱男人百分百,而男人却总会留有空间的去爱 当有一天男人对女人说:你要留百分之三十爱自己 女人哭了,因为这句话太晚了,早已付出百分百 就算爱情没了, 生活也一样在继续, 幸福永运在将来, 可命运或许在你手中操控 爱是种责任,而不是感觉; ——请不要轻易言爱! 承诺,对未来的诺言, ——如果没有把握,那么,请不要承诺 快乐与伤悲成正比 每一个爱情都创造着一种神话,爱情就是神话一般的。 January 22 Recent lifeThe final exam is in process now. Fortunately, I got well prepared before the translation course, hoping that good result will come to me. The school campus is becoming quiet coz a lot of students have left school for the winter vacation. One more thing about school life, the Graduate Candidate Test in China has closed the day before yesterday. I could imagine how my roommates feel after a big burden was relieved from them. I wish them best of luck. For my application to the American Universities, I do have a sense of uncertainty. Yet, the support of my dear parents, professors, friends and classmates, together with my self faith, hold me on all the process. As I promise, I should make a girl with industry and confidence out of my current chemistry. Laziness can make me lazier. As regards to my feelings toward love, I am not sure, to be exact. Being single makes me feel easy sometimes. A lot of friends around are the jumping notes in the melody of the life. The care from parents, professors and friends are well of my happiness. What will come will come. Let nature decide. Keep going with the last exam. Wish me best of luck. I feel sorry that the Internet is so slow that I could not upload my pictures to my space. January 17 Happy life in the ExiderdomeSiemens Exiderdome has been on for four days. Investing so much money in this kind of exhibition, I think Siemens has reached its aims, that is, promoting its products and tapping its customer sources. Generally speaking the exhibition, particularly the multi-media demo, really attracts people’s eyes. Having visiting the dome for the first time, a lot of visitors will come back and try to learn more. Moreover, their former customers are only part of the visitor pool. University students are also included. I am sure they will be overwhelmed by the modern high-tech—automation and drive. Things are really true that existence without electricity unimaginable. For me, what I learned most in the internship is working carefully and exactly, which is the essence of being a good team assistant. Our immediate supervisor is agolden collar, to be exact. She devoted most of her time to her work. The clue of years can be noticed on her face. Being a strong career-oriented lady is no easy job at all, yet I think it is her ambition and strong personal characteristics that drive her on. I wish her best of luck. I stay in the dome with my colleagues almost every day, arranging the car services and room reservation for the VIP of Siemens. Furthermore, I went to the airport to pick up the General Managers of Siemens. The Germany General Managers are really kind and gentlemanlike; therefore I enjoyed a rewarding pick-up experience. Dressing smartly and formally actually add to my confidence. Many thanks to my immediate supervisors, my sweet and considerate pal, and Ms. YY. To be honest, I feel happy to encounter this opportunity, which enables me to perfect my office automation expertise and develops my interpersonal skills. Obviously, Internship and text book are world different. I have to stop here since the final exams are around the corner,I have to go back the books. I will share my recent pictures with you guys. Have a nice day. January 09 finish my proposal finally终于写完论文的开题报告,可以安心的睡觉了。
谢谢老爸老妈的鼓励,呵呵,可爱的爸爸,一直在网上陪我到深夜,感动,住爸爸妈妈好梦!
我也要好梦!想我想念的人,呵呵,不图什么,只是想念。
finish my proposal finally终于写完论文的开题报告,可以安心的睡觉了。
谢谢老爸老妈的鼓励,呵呵,可爱的爸爸,一直在网上陪我到深夜,感动,住爸爸妈妈好梦!
我也要好梦!想我想念的人,呵呵,不图什么,只是想念。
January 08 胃口很好,开心最近胃口很好,正在尝遍青岛的小吃名吃中,北大荒人,老陕西,单县羊汤,烤地瓜,炒栗子,可是还是没有勇气去西门子楼下的颐中皇冠假日酒店吃上一顿自助餐。以后吧,也去尝尝五星级宾馆的美事,有时候觉得,有个目标,想办法去得到,享受那个过程,其实很美妙,有时候得到了,那种美,反而消失了一样。 很想写写我身边的好友,发现自己是个喜欢捕捉小小的幸福,总结一下那些许的幸福和痛苦,独自坐在窗前,托着脸蛋,想想事情,分享着美丽的阳光。恩,是件美事。 明天是南瓜的生日,生日快乐!希望你早日找到适合自己的女孩,天天开心。同为校友的两年,我很开心。明天有大餐可以吃了!呵呵!开心!
January 07 西门子 时间过得太快了,一眨眼的功夫,新年的第一个星期就过去了。想不到,第一个星期竟然是在西门子度过的。工作很繁琐,可是也很锻炼人。刚开始,我总是犯错误,一直郁闷了好久,可是本性好强乐观,当然还有朋友的支持,我坚持下来了。一切都会好的,我犯的错误越来越少了,是个好的开始,我想这在我以后的工作中将受益非浅的。
突然对过了三十还没有男朋友不结婚的女子有点恐惧了,在她们的脸上我似乎看到了生活的痕迹,不好,女子应该有个归宿的。
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